Joseph Accepts Jesus as His Son
18 This is how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about[d]:
His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph, but before they
came together, she was found to be pregnant through the Holy Spirit.
19 Because Joseph her husband was faithful to the law, and yet[e] did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly.
As I mentioned in the
first post
of this series, Matthew tells the story of Jesus’ birth from Joseph’s
perspective, and Luke tells it from Mary’s point of view. In fact,
Biblical scholars believe that the first two chapters of Luke probably
come entirely from interviews that Luke did with Mary. Matthew, on the
other hand, could not have interviewed Joseph. Joseph is believed to
have died while Jesus was a teenager, and Matthew did not become a
Christian until Jesus was an adult. We don’t know where Matthew got the
information that he put in the first two chapters of his gospel,
which doesn’t appear in Mark or Luke. Maybe this was something Joseph
told Jesus’ brother James, who became head of the church in Jerusalem
later. Maybe Matthew got this material from James,
with whom he would have worked closely in the Jerusalem church. It
seems likely to me that this passage in Matthew follows
yesterday’s passage in Luke in the chronology.
Mary was betrothed to Joseph. In that culture, betrothal was more
than engagement is in ours, but less than full marriage. The couple did
not live together as husband and wife, but legally, they were husband
and wife. That’s why Matthew uses the phrase
Joseph her husband
in verse 19, and why breaking the engagement required a divorce. In
verse 18, Matthew says that before they “came together,” Mary
was found to be pregnant through the Holy Spirit.
I take that to mean that Gabriel had told Mary the news, and then Mary
told Joseph. It’s easy to understand why Joseph would doubt her story.
Wouldn’t you? Verse 19 says that Joseph was faithful to the law, or
that he was
a righteous man. The law stated that Joseph was
within his rights to have Mary stoned to death for adultery. He would
have had to file a complaint with the local magistrate, stating his
reason for divorce. If the reason he gave was adultery, Mary would have
been stoned. But Joseph was not just a man who lived according to the
law. He was a man of mercy. As verse 19 says, Joseph was faithful to
the law,
and yet, he didn’t want to expose her to disgrace.
Joseph showed the same grace to Mary that God shows to us. According to
the law, God had the right to condemn all of us for our sin,
and yet, he sent his Son.
Joseph’s method of “divorcing her quietly,” as Matthew puts it, would
have been to make out a certificate of divorce, but not state the
reason for the divorce. Jewish men in that culture were allowed to
divorce their wives for the flimsiest of reasons. Joseph could literally
have said that he found someone he liked better, and that would have
been accepted by the magistrate. But to divorce her without stating a
reason would have been a breach of contract with Mary’s family. Joseph
was willing to accept that penalty to save Mary from embarrassment, even
though he wasn’t sure that she had not cheated on him. That’s grace.
He must have loved her very much. God’s grace works the same way, for
the same reason. He extends his grace to us because he loves us so
much.
20 But after he had considered
this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said,
“Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife,
because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. 21 She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus,[f] because he will save his people from their sins.”
Gabriel had appeared to Zechariah and Mary while they were awake, but
the angel appeared to Joseph in a dream. I don’t think this means that
Joseph rated less with God than the others. God often spoke to people
in the Bible in dreams (
Genesis 31:11, 24, 1 Kings 3:5, Numbers 12:6).
The fact that the angel’s appearance to Joseph came in a dream made it
no less valid. As we will see, Joseph took the angel’s message very
seriously, at significant cost to himself.
I believe that Mary must have
told Joseph everything that Gabriel had said to her. So this message
was all about confirmation. Gabriel had said to Mary regarding Jesus,
“The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David.” (
Luke 1:32) So right off the bat, the angel calls Joseph
son of David. Joseph had been considering divorce, so the angel tells him, “do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife.” In
Luke 1:35,
Gabriel had said to Mary, “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the
power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born
will be called the Son of God.” To confirm that with Joseph, the angel
tells him, “what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit.” I’m sure
Mary also told Joseph that they were to name the baby Jesus, as
Gabriel told her in
Luke 1:31.
So the angel also tells Joseph the same thing in verse 21 here. Joseph
receives confirmation after confirmation that what Mary had told him
was true. Joseph obviously needed that much confirmation from God to go
through what he would have to go through. I think I would have needed
that too.
Gabriel had told Mary that the baby’s name was to be Jesus, but the angel gave Joseph the reason for that;
because he will save his people from their sins. The name
Jesus is the Greek version of the Hebrew name
Joshua, which means
Savior. The only reason we call Jesus
Jesus, and not
Joshua,
is that the Old Testament was written in Hebrew and the New Testament
was written in Greek. So Joshua becomes Jesus, and Levi becomes
Matthew. In many cases in the New Testament, we are given the Greek
versions of Jewish names. Most people know that the actual Hebrew name
of Jesus was Yeshua. I’d just like to point out here that Yeshua is
pronounced YESH-ua, like JOSH-ua, not “Yesh-U-a,” as we so often hear
it pronounced.
The Amplified Bible translates verse 21 like this:
21She will bear a
Son, and you shall call His name Jesus [the Greek form of the Hebrew
Joshua, which means Savior], for He will save His people from their
sins [that is, prevent them from [a]failing and missing the true end and scope of life, which is God].
I’m fascinated by that definition of saving us from our sins:
Preventing us from failing and missing the true end and scope of life, which is God. Wow. Chew on that a while. The true
end, or
purpose
of life, and all of the scope of life is ultimately about one thing;
God. Jesus came to save us from missing that. He saves us from our sin
in this life by forgiving us of our sins and cleansing us of all
unrighteousness (
1 John 1:9),
which was impossible without the sacrifice of Jesus. And he saves us
from sin in the next life by providing a home in Heaven, where there is
no sin.
22 All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: 23 “The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel”[g] (which means “God with us”).
Here is the first of sixteen instances in Matthew’s gospel where he uses
the phrase, “this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through
the prophet,” or something similar. One of Matthew’s chief aims in this
book was to demonstrate to his fellow Jews that Jesus was the promised
Messiah, as foretold by prophecy. The familiar verse of scripture that
he quotes is
Isaiah 7:14.
This prophecy is somewhat troubling to me for one reason. Mary and
Joseph did not name him Immanuel, nor were they told to by the angel.
There is no record in the Bible of Jesus ever being called by that name.
So who is the prophecy talking about? I think it may be talking about
us. How many songs can you think of that are based on this verse? I can
think of four right off the bat, one of which I wrote! Though we
mainly call him Jesus, by quoting this verse and singing the songs we
sing, we ourselves fulfill this prophecy.
God with us. When Jesus came in the flesh, he was physically
present among his people. That fulfilled the prophecy. When the Holy
Spirit came at Pentecost, God was present in and among his people
everywhere. That fulfills the prophecy. One day we will go to be with
him, but until then, God is
with us.
24 When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took Mary home as his wife. 25 But he did not consummate their marriage until she gave birth to a son. And he gave him the name Jesus.
Matthew implies in verse 24 that Mary and Joseph were married before
the birth of Jesus, but Luke says that Mary “was pledged to be married
to him and was expecting a child” at the time they went to Bethlehem. I
had assumed based on Luke’s language that they still weren’t married
at the time of Jesus’ birth. But that assumes that they went to
Bethlehem late in Mary’s pregnancy, which the Bible never says. It
could well be that Joseph took Mary to Bethlehem early on in the
pregnancy in order to save her embarrassment from the gossip that would
surely have spread around their hometown of Nazareth. That would
certainly fit with what we know about Joseph’s character. It’s possible
that the actual wedding took place in Bethlehem, while they were there
awaiting the census.
But the time line is not the point here. The point is that Joseph
obeyed God. He did so despite the suspicion and scorn he would
experience from everyone who knew them. Joseph displayed mercy, grace,
love, and obedience to God’s will throughout this process, regardless of
the cost. Jesus displayed those same qualities during his time on
earth. Jesus had his divine nature, but he also had a godly example in
his earthly father.